Rory’s Story

This narrative was shared as part of the Low Vision Support Group meeting on Friday, December 13, 2024.  The views & experiences shared in this blog post are those of the individuals involved & do not necessarily reflect the opinions, policies, or positions of the Low Vision Services at UTH Cizik Eye Clinic.

The Accident

Rory, a member of the Low Vision Clinic, attended today's session with his wife, Ludi. His life changed forever when he was shot in the head by his adopted son at his workplace. In the moments that followed, his son called for help, leading to Rory being airlifted by Life Flight to the Texas Medical Center for emergency treatment. The initial prognosis was grim—Ludi vividly remembers the immediate loss of vision and physical function after the incident. However, she describes Rory's recovery as a “miracle,” recounting how his vision improved significantly after surgery, and he regained much of the function in his right arm and leg. 

But the challenges continued. During their anniversary dinner at a restaurant, Ludi noticed Rory bumping into tables and walls. When she looked closely, she was shocked to see his eyes moving in different directions. Days later, Rory experienced transient ptosis (drooping eyelid) and slurred speech, prompting immediate concern. At the Memorial Hermann ER, doctors discovered that Rory had suffered three mini-strokes over the preceding five days. The strokes resulted in permanent peripheral vision loss, altering his life once again.

The Aftermath

Reflecting on his experience, Rory shared, “I felt like I lost everything.” Grieving the loss of his independence and abilities was a profound struggle. Unable to continue managing his business, Rory made the difficult decision to sell it.

Upon joining the Low Vision Clinic at Cizik Eye, Rory recalls initially resisting therapy. However, a pivotal moment during rehabilitation changed his outlook. Grace, an occupational therapist with the Low Vision team, placed a small object in front of Rory—a screw he could barely see. Holding the screw, a symbol of his passion for building, reignited his determination to persevere. 

Rehabilitation

With Grace's consistent support and tailored therapy sessions, Rory gradually experienced improvements in his vision and confidence. Therapy was customized to his interests, and Rory fondly remembers collaborating with Grace to build a small engine as part of his rehabilitation. A significant milestone came when Rory regained his driving privileges. “It’s overwhelming to hear from the doctor that you can drive again,” Rory reflects. “When you’re in my position and you hear that, it means everything.”

The Present & Future

Today, Rory keeps himself busy restoring three trucks and constructing a personal workshop for his projects. Despite the obstacles he has faced, he expresses deep gratitude for the life he leads. “I’m a simple guy,” Rory says with a smile. “All I want is to drive 12-15 miles into town, visit Tractor Supply, stop by Home Depot...”

Ludi chimes in playfully, “How about taking your wife out for lunch?”

Rory laughs and acknowledges how fortunate he feels to have come this far, engaging in the activities he loves most.

As he reflects on his journey with low vision, Rory highlights the importance of support and community. He expresses heartfelt appreciation for Ludi’s unwavering presence and addresses the support group, calling them his “second family.” In closing, Rory offers words of encouragement to the group, saying, “If y’all need me, I’m here. And I need every one of you.”